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Holli Emory has been Coaching for nearly a decade and is Certified in the Law of Attraction, LEEA Educator (*Leading Edge Emotional Awareness) She also holds a certification in Trauma & PTSD Recovery. GRM Georgia Registered Mediator. Holli’s area of expertise is in Emotional Intelligence and she continues to expand her knowledge about the human brain and quantum physics as it relates to the human experience. Read Holli Emory’s recent feature interview in Voyage Atlanta Magazine here.
Holli’s passion is inspiring her clients to evolve beyond the pain of the past so they can experience authentic transformational healing and cultivate a life of pure joy and abundance.
Holli has dedicated the past 10 years immersed in her own personal and educational evolution so she may develop a deeper and more empathetic approach to better serve, support, and empower her clients.
Holli’s Coaching Certifications infuse both the principles of the Law of Attraction with her Trauma and PTSD certification to bridge the gap between the subconscious and conscious mind. She utilizes her vast knowledge in LOA & LEEA along with quantum physics studies to teach her clients techniques to transcend tough emotional blocks as well as tools to manage traumatic triggers so they may lead fully enriched Spiritual lives.
Holli enjoys serving her community and is entering her 6th year as a CASA Volunteer (*Court Appointed Special Advocate) for children in Foster Care in her local community. Holli previously served on the board of Unity In Disasters a boutique 501c3 that specializes in long-term post-natural disaster relief and recovery.
She loves being a Mom of two children and takes every opportunity to seek adventure and connect with nature and her loving Soul Tribe.
My $100k Emotions
I was seriously heading into Emotional Bankruptcy & fast!
I am not the same person I used to be and you don’t have to be either. Simply put I AM better, I am Emotionally Wealthier and you can be too! For much of my adulthood, I was operating in the Emotional Red otherwise known as a deficit or simply put DEBT. Ewww . . . like any of us needs more debt?
Drowning In Emotional Debt
After a series of Emotionally draining encounters, I realized that I wasn’t building Emotional Equity and the subsequent Emotional Wealth that could be accrued from it because to be quite frank I was lacking the skills to do so! What I truly wanted or more importantly how I truly wanted to feel was anything like how I was feeling. What I was feeling felt an awful lot like a mountain of Emotional Debt! Alarm bells were sounding thanks to my EGS (*emotional guidance system) which was alerting me that something wasn’t right. I soon discovered that I was knee-deep in low vibrational emotions. Such as shame, guilt, and unworthiness. On the surface, I thought I was okay, but was I truly happy? Did I feel fulfilled? What was it that I wanted? Were my core needs met? What did I desire?
Perhaps your inner voice has been echoing some of these very same questions to you. These very important questions weren’t going away unanswered. Remember, I had a plan, so why all the questions and how would I find the answers to these questions? I had to figure out what I didn’t want before I could create what I did want. Well, I always knew what I wanted, so where or what was keeping me from it?
What discovered was that what I was actually feeling was disconnection, unsupported, and general frustration. My relationships felt unrewarding, my career was nowhere near where I’d hoped it’d be and I was so far from reaching the potential I deeply desired and knew I was capable of reaching. I felt, overwhelmed & exhausted!
SOUND FAMILIAR?
Are these the kinds of feelings that are keeping you plastered in your bed in the morning with the covers pulled over your head and feeling paralyzed with fear to the point of depression, anxiety, and a whole host of other not-so-fun emotions?
What did I do next?
I got to work, because while life can be complex enough if you’re single, then you try the couple thing anywhere from one to many times over, and at some point, you possibly start a family. Well, we all know that even the best-laid plans can quickly go sideways and that’s if you even had a plan, to begin with. Having kids as we all know is a complete game changer and it takes a LOT of planning. Although I’m fairly certain that if we took a Global Poll right now, a good majority of us arrived into existence from not-so-well-laid (pun intended) plans. My personal experience is one of three unplanned plans. That Universe or however, you choose to identify a higher energy of our existence, has a plan and we either get on board or not. Having said that, plans change right & we adapt life to the new plans. I just so happen to be one of three, statistically speaking unplanned plans. that would likely support the vast majority of how humanity came to be out of divine and miraculous EEKs! Now what? Plan or no plan where do you go from here besides putting one foot in front of the other daily?
As the Primary Parent to two amazing beings, I knew I needed a better plan outside of the loose financial plan I had. My Plan for Emotional Success on the other hand was an entirely different story, that needed a much different strategy.
WHEN LOVE ISN’T ENOUGH?
I felt that I had a LOT of love to give coupled with some basic instincts borne from a desire to become a Mother, I dove headfirst toward my goals.
Truth, I had a plan that I was significantly confident about, it was more than a plan it was a vision, however, what I didn’t plan on was my plan of love and desire to forge a new growth path not being enough.
Not everyone was willing to see, understand, and support my vision, and that’s okay.
What I thought was a solid support structure, let’s just say wasn’t.
Fear, fear, and more fear, only not my fear. Remember, I had a vision.
Passive-aggressive external shame, blame, and guilt, manipulation, admitted hatred, parental and sabotage, jealousy, sibling alienation, covert narcissism & the list goes on.
Inherited Emotional Debt to include, subconscious self-limiting core beliefs
Yes, you read that right.
blah, blah, blah . . .
So what, now what?
Keep the vision, and create a new plan.
In this life, it is essential that we be dynamic. When unexpected things occur your ability to quickly adapt to a new set of circumstances will be of great benefit to you. The unexpected is inevitable, your ability to turn unexpected into unforeseen opportunities. Time to create a new support structure, starting with me. Once I awakened to this idea I got to work. Did I have all of the answers immediately? Absolutely not. What I did have was my EGS, (Emotional Guidance System) which by the way needed a tune-up! Here’s the real kicker and many of you might not be ready for this. I had to figure out just how much of this ED was actually mine and how much I had inherited as Generational Emotional Debt. Ahhhh . . . there it is!!!
I created a plan to work on eliminating the hefty tax and compounded interest from my ancestors! Don’t get me wrong, I definitely created some debt of my own, however, I soon realized that I was not responsible for the Emotional Debt of every family member before me. My new plan consisted of a better way to navigate the Emotional Debt that had accrued. Let’s just say a serious Personal Audit was Step One! I took a deep look at not only the debt I could see but the debt I couldn’t see. This was what was dragging me down & I could no longer afford the interest! The interest alone from the subconscious debt greatly impacted EVERYTHING! This inevitably played a huge role in not only how I parented but every aspect of my life.
I had to get out of my own way, release my Ego Self, and connect to my Spiritual Self. Simply put my Ego was writing checks that my heart couldn’t cash. There were things that would come up that would leave me scratching my head while other things would leave me mere inches from being completely shattered or at least that’s what it felt. It wasn’t TRUE, none of it was true! Perhaps you’ve been here more than once? Although I was ultimately fine and got through, I felt drained, more specifically on the brink of Emotional Bankruptcy. Yes, there is such a thing, it’s called giving up! Only in reality, it was actually a call to ACTION to find a better way. Stepping into awareness.
Whether you’re single, in a committed relationship, have kids, or whatever, life can be a LOT! We live longer than ever so why not make it absolutely AMAZING? For me and my truth, it went far beyond living a standard existence! I wanted to experience more in life, NO, I wanted to sink my teeth into all that life has to offer! This all started with having a solid Plan for Emotional Success to draw from. Maybe you too carry a deep inner knowing that there just has to be more to life. Maybe you keep getting derailed by Emotional Debt. I desired better for myself and certainly better for my children. I wanted to build a better, no more abundant Emotional Legacy for them. One that they could debit from for decades to come. I made the decision that I had to start building Emotional Wealth for myself in order to leave my children an Emotionally Wealthy Inheritance.
FEEL
Start with How?
It’s rarely about what you’re feeling and almost always about HOW you want to feel. So much, NO really ALL of what we experience in life is directly tied to our EMOTIONS, how we feel. So why isn’t more attention given to the power of our emotions? I had to get a grip on what or how I wanted to feel vs. how I was feeling, about EVERYTHING! We simply aren’t taught to harness the power of our emotions. Our emotions are a complex resource of untapped infinite potential. It is when we learn and understand how to harness the power within also known as our EGS (Emotional Guidance System) that life becomes Authentically Amazing vs. Social Media Amazing. Without a deeper understanding of our EGS life is pretty much a roll of the Emotional Dice at best fraught with unnecessary pain and struggle. While it’s true that there can be strength in our struggles and throughout our lives, we will certainly experience many a “struggle” or challenge., it doesn’t always have to be as hard as we’ve been conditioned to believe. Who was it that said that life has to be painful in order to have value? NO PAIN, NO GAIN right? Ummm . . . NO, I call BS on that mindset. Who determined this to be the blueprint for a purpose-filled life?
RETHINK
As complicated as you reading this may think it is, (we humans are so very good at overthinking and thus overcomplicating EVERYTHING aren’t we?) While we all do this, in all actuality it is rather simple at the end of the day. First I had to wake up to all that I knew from within, although that wasn’t enough. I had to make the decision to commit to a better me, a better more purpose-filled life, and enriched relationships. In order to do this I had to shed the excuses and let go of the stories I had accepted that was deeply embedded into my subconscious that formed the supported grossly inaccurate existence I was living, my existence.
GROW BABY GROW!
Building Emotional Wealth and creating a new legacy begins when you take action and Create A Plan For Emotional Success. There is so much Emotional Wealth to be cultivated so YOU too can be better, today, tomorrow, next week, next year, and always!
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Holli Emory is a Transformational Leading Edge Emotional Awareness Educator ~ PTSD Guide ~ Personal Wellness Coach/Advocate ~ Podcaster ~ Speaker ~ CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) to provide advocacy services to children in Foster Care
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